irv Posted January 2, 2019 Share Posted January 2, 2019 30 minutes ago, awful knawful said: Christmas was a week ago! I think Joe is preparing for Christmas 2019? If anyone is coaching hockey or is on the bench up here in Canada, one must take a Gender course. I did in 2017/early 18 and couldn't believe what I was reading!!! Imo, the whole process, educating thing is still in its infancy!! The course was 2 hrs long and you had no choice but to watch/complete it. If you opened another window or tried to drag the cursor forward during vids and some sessions, it would freeze on you and you had to start over. The biggest thing that struck me, other than all the lables, was one week "they" could identify as a male then the next "they" could identify as a female. When they decided to identify as a female then they had to be accommodated with a seperate/private dressing room. The course was painful and I came away from it more confused than I was going in. It was a shocking eye opener to say the least. At work currently, there are 3 "they's" who couldn't be any less femine, imo. 2 are over 6 feet tall and one is the size of hulk hogan!! Joe, you will have to ask your daughter lots of questions before their arrival but at the same time, there has to be some leeway with him/her as he knows this is all new to you guys as well. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
motonoggin Posted January 2, 2019 Share Posted January 2, 2019 Just now, ActionfigureJoe said: That’s not the point. Having already established a long standing relationship, it’s not easy in the beginning. No, for sure. It gets easier to remember. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Platinum Contributing Member Jimmy Snacks Posted January 2, 2019 Platinum Contributing Member Share Posted January 2, 2019 6 minutes ago, snopro31 said: Wouldn’t be family anymore That would be their gain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ActionfigureJoe Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 Just now, Jimmy Snacks said: That would be their gain. True that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ActionfigureJoe Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 2 minutes ago, motonoggin said: No, for sure. It gets easier to remember. It has. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gold Member joesale Posted January 3, 2019 Author Gold Member Share Posted January 3, 2019 3 minutes ago, irv said: I think Joe is preparing for Christmas 2019? If anyone is coaching hockey or is on the bench up here in Canada, one must take a Gender course. I did in 2017/early 18 and couldn't believe what I was reading!!! Imo, the whole process, educating thing is still in its infancy!! The course was 2 hrs long and you had no choice but to watch/complete it. If you opened another window or tried to drag the cursor forward during vids and some sessions, it would freeze on you and you had to start over. The biggest thing that struck me, other than all the lables, was one week "they" could identify as a male then the next "they" could identify as a female. When they decided to identify as a female then they had to be accommodated with a seperate/private dressing room. The course was painful and I came away from it more confused than I was going in. It was a shocking eye opener to say the least. At work currently, there are 3 "they's" who couldn't be any less femine, imo. 2 are over 6 feet tall and one is the size of hulk hogan!! Joe, you will have to ask your daughter lots of questions before their arrival but at the same time, there has to be some leeway with him/her as he knows this is all new to you guys as well. Good luck! Thanks, its at their house so I can go or not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irv Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 1 minute ago, joesale said: Thanks, its at their house so I can go or not Your decision, obviously, but I think it is something we will all have to get use to at some point. If things get uncomfortable, then explain, like a guy did at work, that you don't dislike him or anything like that, you just don't understand it. If that is not good enough and he wants to go on further against your wishes, then explain to him you need baby steps processing this. You can always leave if it becomes too uncomfortable. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ez ryder Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 52 minutes ago, joesale said: So, my nieces husband decided he is a girl.He told us about 4 months ago. Saturday is our Christmas celebration and the first time I will be seeing Him?her?it? So, have any of you have dealt with this? And how did it go? you Serbian or some other orthodox religion using the Julian calender ? a lot of my family dose the Serbian Christmas. think this yr is Sunday and Monday Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Gold Member joesale Posted January 3, 2019 Author Gold Member Share Posted January 3, 2019 3 minutes ago, Ez ryder said: you Serbian or some other orthodox religion using the Julian calender ? a lot of my family dose the Serbian Christmas. think this yr is Sunday and Monday Nope, we're just late this year with that branch of the family tree. This year was a scheduling nightmare. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awful knawful Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 28 minutes ago, snopro31 said: Wouldn’t be family anymore Wow.... seriously? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zambroski Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 1 hour ago, joesale said: So, my nieces husband decided he is a girl.He told us about 4 months ago. Saturday is our Christmas celebration and the first time I will be seeing Him?her?it? So, have any of you have dealt with this? And how did it go? It’s nice to be able to choose your sex/gender/race/species anytime one feels their “feels” these days. Hey, I think a lot of men should just decide to be women. They aren’t doing the men thing very well at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mainecat Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 41 minutes ago, xtralettucetomatoe580 said: Very progressive of you. Cocktail liberalism at its finest... Humans are humans bud Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtralettucetomatoe580 Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 Just now, Mainecat said: Humans are humans bud In this case, hypocrites are hypocrites, bud. This is why younger people despise your generation. You're fake, yet you can't even fake being a progressive right... As for the family member, I am sure that has to be an unbelievably hard thing to do by reintroducing yourself to your family. Hope they get the support they need. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gold Member joesale Posted January 3, 2019 Author Gold Member Share Posted January 3, 2019 5 minutes ago, Zambroski said: It’s nice to be able to choose your sex/gender/race/species anytime one feels their “feels” these days. Hey, I think a lot of men should just decide to be women. They aren’t doing the men thing very well at all. He actually does men things very well. Ho owns and operates a pretty successful landscape company. 26 years old and paid cash for beautiful restored farmhouse on 40 acres. He paid $250,000. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snoslinger Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 7 minutes ago, Zambroski said: It’s nice to be able to choose your sex/gender/race/species anytime one feels their “feels” these days. That is a very odd statement to make. Like a lot of people “feel” something abnormal, bit choose to keep it in? Is that what you do? A normal person, with some critical thinking skills, would not make a statement like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gold Member joesale Posted January 3, 2019 Author Gold Member Share Posted January 3, 2019 4 minutes ago, xtralettucetomatoe580 said: In this case, hypocrites are hypocrites, bud. This is why younger people despise your generation. You're fake, yet you can't even fake being a progressive right... As for the family member, I am sure that has to be an unbelievably hard thing to do by reintroducing yourself to your family. Hope they get the support they need. I'm sure it's very much harder for him to do this the me to understand. My problem is that I don't have a politically correct bone in my body, and I don't have a filter. I'm like a giant toddler. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zambroski Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 3 minutes ago, joesale said: He actually does men things very well. Ho owns and operates a pretty successful landscape company. 26 years old and paid cash for beautiful restored farmhouse on 40 acres. He paid $250,000. Women can do that too. You’ll see. Good for him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zambroski Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 2 minutes ago, Snoslinger said: That is a very odd statement to make. Like a lot of people “feel” something abnormal, bit choose to keep it in? Is that what you do? A normal person, with some critical thinking skills, would not make a statement like that. Just be quiet. I acknowledge that people are born with mental deficiencies. I don’t care. It’s just weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 7 minutes ago, Snoslinger said: That is a very odd statement to make. Like a lot of people “feel” something abnormal, bit choose to keep it in? Is that what you do? A normal person, with some critical thinking skills, would not make a statement like that. Your critical thinking makes you envious of others... That must trigger your anxiety issues as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zambroski Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 3 minutes ago, DAVE said: Your critical thinking makes you envious of others... That must trigger your anxiety issues as well. Librul “critical thinking”= a hot, emotional mess spewing nothing but daily talking points delivered via their mother ship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ez ryder Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 so is his wife now a lesbian ? I had a friend when I was living in SF in the early 90s who got a sex change he had his dick turned in side out so he coukd be a lesbian .I still find it crazy . 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 Just now, Zambroski said: Librul “critical thinking”= a hot, emotional mess spewing nothing but daily talking points delivers via their mother ship. That too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angry ginger Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 1 hour ago, Rod Johnson said: Penis = he\him vagina = she\her this solves all the pronoun bullshit real quick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rod Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 1 minute ago, Angry ginger said: this solves all the pronoun bullshit real quick It’s not rocket appliances Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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