The Lightning even though it's nice it can't come close to what I use my F350 for, if your wife would try an EV I bet she'd be swayed right away, I was a hard no on EV's until I hung out with the Porsche guy and he talked me into driving his. The legacy car companies have made the driving experience any easy transition to electric and if they fit for like your wife's use, they're kind of a no brainer. The people I've learned the most from are from the mindset, EV's aren't about saving the world, it's their convenience, you can warm (or cool) them up in the garage without needing to start, they're really quite to the point some even have fake ambiance driving sound, you can turn off after you get used to how quiet they are. For shits and giggles take one for a spin, anyone that's a car guy needs to.
I live up north, so the charging network is critical, but now it's where I can get to the Cities, a once or twice a month trip for us, but it's not quite convenient yet, especially in the winter.